Most people associate sleep apnea with overweight adults. But sleep apnea affects children too — and in kids, the most common cause is enlarged tonsils and adenoids, not body weight. Pediatric sleep apnea is underdiagnosed, in part because parents don't always recognize the signs, and in part because the daytime symptoms can easily be mistaken for behavioral or attention problems.

If your child snores regularly, seems to struggle to breathe during sleep, or wakes up tired despite a full night in bed, a pediatric ENT evaluation is an important step. At Seaside ENT in Brooklyn and Staten Island, Dr. Ruwaa Samarrai evaluates children for sleep-disordered breathing and helps families understand what is happening and what the treatment options are.

1–5%
of children are estimated to have obstructive sleep apnea
2–8
peak age range in years — when tonsils and adenoids are largest relative to airway size
#1
cause in children is enlarged tonsils and adenoids — highly treatable

What is pediatric obstructive sleep apnea?

Obstructive sleep apnea (OSA) occurs when the upper airway partially or completely collapses during sleep, causing repeated interruptions in breathing. In children, these collapses are most commonly caused by enlarged tonsils and adenoids that physically narrow the airway when the muscles relax during sleep.

Each time the airway collapses, the brain briefly wakes the child to restore breathing — often without either the child or the parent realizing it is happening. These micro-arousals fragment sleep, preventing the deep, restorative rest that growing children need.

Children with sleep apnea often do not look tired — they look hyperactive. Fragmented sleep in children frequently presents as behavioral problems, poor focus, and hyperactivity rather than the daytime sleepiness more typical in adults.

Nighttime signs to watch for

Loud, Regular Snoring

Not just occasional — loud snoring most nights is abnormal in children

Pauses in Breathing

Moments of silence followed by a gasp, snort, or resumption of loud breathing

Mouth Breathing During Sleep

Sleeping with the mouth open, often with the head tilted back

Restless Sleep

Excessive movement, sleeping in unusual positions, frequent waking

Night Sweats

Sweating during sleep from increased respiratory effort

Bedwetting

Sleep apnea can contribute to bedwetting beyond the expected age

Daytime symptoms parents often miss

Because children with sleep apnea rarely complain of feeling tired, the daytime effects are frequently misattributed to behavioral or developmental issues. Symptoms to watch for during the day include:

Hyperactivity or impulsivity
Poor attention and concentration
Irritability and mood swings
Difficulty waking in the morning
Academic underperformance
Behavioral issues at school
Morning headaches
Falling asleep during the day
Worth knowing Sleep apnea has been misdiagnosed as ADHD in some children. The behavioral and attention symptoms of pediatric sleep apnea can closely mimic ADHD. If your child has been evaluated for attention problems, or if behavioral concerns are not fully explained by other factors, sleep-disordered breathing is worth ruling out. Treating the underlying sleep apnea sometimes leads to significant improvement in attention and behavior — without medication.

What causes sleep apnea in children?

The most common cause by far is enlarged tonsils and adenoids. Children's tonsils and adenoids are naturally large relative to their airway size, and when further enlarged by repeated infections or chronic inflammation, they can significantly narrow the space available for breathing during sleep.

Other contributing factors include:

How is pediatric sleep apnea diagnosed?

Diagnosis begins with a thorough history and physical examination by a pediatric ENT. Dr. Samarrai will examine the tonsils, adenoids, nasal passages, and overall airway. She will ask detailed questions about your child's sleep patterns, nighttime symptoms, and daytime behavior.

In many cases, the clinical picture — large tonsils, classic nighttime symptoms, and daytime behavioral effects — is sufficient to guide treatment. A formal sleep study (polysomnography) may be recommended in certain cases, particularly when the diagnosis is uncertain or the child has additional medical complexity.

Treatment options

For most children with obstructive sleep apnea caused by enlarged tonsils and adenoids, the first-line treatment is adenotonsillectomy — surgical removal of the tonsils and adenoids. This is one of the most commonly performed procedures in pediatric ENT surgery, and it resolves or significantly improves sleep apnea in the majority of children.

For children where surgery is not indicated, or as an adjunct, other options may include:

When to seek prompt evaluation

Contact us if your child has:

  • Witnessed pauses in breathing during sleep
  • Episodes of gasping or choking during sleep
  • Significant behavioral changes alongside sleep concerns
  • Any breathing difficulty at rest during the day

Frequently asked questions

My child snores but seems fine during the day — should I still be concerned?
Regular loud snoring in a child is not normal and warrants evaluation, even if the child appears fine during the day. As noted above, the daytime effects of sleep apnea in children often present as behavioral issues rather than obvious tiredness — so apparent daytime wellness does not rule out meaningful nighttime obstruction.
How do I know if my child needs a sleep study?
Not every child with suspected sleep apnea requires a formal sleep study before treatment. Dr. Samarrai will assess the clinical picture and advise whether a sleep study would add meaningful information for your child's specific situation. In many straightforward cases of enlarged tonsils and adenoids with classic symptoms, treatment can be planned based on clinical assessment alone.
Will removing the tonsils and adenoids definitely cure the sleep apnea?
Adenotonsillectomy resolves or significantly improves obstructive sleep apnea in the majority of children. However, results vary based on the degree of obstruction, the child's anatomy, and whether other contributing factors are present. Dr. Samarrai will give you realistic expectations based on your child's evaluation.
My child is only 3 — can they have sleep apnea?
Yes. Sleep apnea can affect young toddlers and even infants, particularly when enlarged adenoids are the cause. The peak age for adenotonsillar hypertrophy is roughly 2–8 years. Dr. Samarrai evaluates children of all ages, and the assessment approach is adapted to the child's age.

Serving Brooklyn & Staten Island families

Seaside ENT sees patients at 6818 3rd Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11220 in Bay Ridge and 1191 Forest Ave, Staten Island, NY 10310. Dr. Samarrai speaks both Arabic and English. Most major insurance plans are accepted including Medicaid.

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Is your child struggling to sleep?

Call Seaside ENT to schedule a pediatric sleep apnea evaluation with Dr. Samarrai. Most insurance accepted.

Call (917) 992-3873

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